You are flawed!

 “Every action has an equal and opposite reaction”, “Karma is a boomerang” are some of the ideologies that we believe in and live by although we fail to address the same when we are the subject. Everything that happens around you could possibly be a reaction what happens inside you.

First and foremost embrace your flaws, as long as you don’t acknowledge your flaws you will never be able to change yourself for the better. No one is perfect and neither are you but remember there is no one like you. It is very important to feel good about oneself but not so okay to feel that we are better than the rest. That very thought could ruin your capability of development or any future progression. When we think we are a hundred percent perfect we fail to notice our own mistake and stop evolving as a person.

When you say you behave in different way with different people based on their personality, I think you might be wrong. Because you shouldn’t sacrifice who you are and what you believe for a mere stranger. That inadvertently proves that you let them in control of your emotions and reactions. When you know you can’t control people’s actions take control of your reactions. Most of your life’s negativity may not be because of what’s around you but because of the reactions you exhibit to them. You may not always in control of what happens around so make sure you have your reactions to them under control. Having control over your emotions is the greatest feat a human could achieve and once you are set in that path nothing could ever break you.

Why everyone is not like you could be the stupidest thing you could think of. If all of us had the same personalities, dreams, aspirations and emotions I think the world would most certainly be the boring place and eventually collapse. You don’t have to understand or agree with everything and everyone. All you need to do is accept the fact people are entitled to their own opinions just like you do. It is easy to be an ideal person as long as the situations are in favor but the important thing is to follow the same in circumstances of adversity.  When you believe in something and someone doesn’t you need to accept that and when someone else believes in something that you don’t all you need to do is respect that when you fail to do this you are wrong.

No one knows you better than yourself and that’s your biggest strength. You should learn to be your own critic and also a cheerleader for the path to becoming a better of version yourself begins with you. The first step of that journey is extremely simple but hard. When you are wrong, accept that you are wrong. Whole heartily believe that you are the source of what happens within you and around you. Be the superhero of your own life a flawed but a strong superhero.

Any good change takes a hell lot of time but all you need to do is start and there is no turning back. Just make sure you are a better person than you were yesterday and not vice versa.

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Meanwhile live, love, laugh!

Kamalavinayagam G